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Periods after having baby. Could I be pregnant?!

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Selfdoubter123 · 11/10/2019 19:19

DD is 11mo. I’m bf and periods came back a month ago. Prior to having a baby my periods were like clockwork every 24 days. Me and DP had some unprotected sex (but didn’t ‘finish’ Blush) a couple of weeks ago. Didn’t think much of it as we did this very regularly for about a year before DD was conceived (the first time he did ‘finish’).

I should be due another period but it’s late. I’ve been having quite severe PMS type symptoms the last week and have bad bloating/cramps - but no AF!

Is it normal to be irregular and strange symptoms as periods return? Or is it possible I’m pregnant? Has anyone fallen pregnant from withdrawal?!

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MoaningMyrtle96 · 11/10/2019 19:35

The withdrawal method isn't a proven form of contraception due to the pre-cum. There is definitely a possibility you could be pregnant!

Are you able to do a test a couple of days after when you were supposed to be due on?

Good luck, I hope you get the answer you're after Thanks

alwaysthinkingofsleep · 11/10/2019 22:45

It could easily be your periods settling or a pregnancy...I also had this at 11mo when BD, test was negative. However I had a positive test the next month!

SprinkleDash · 11/10/2019 23:20

You’ve had unprotected sex of course you could be pregnant! Hmm

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UndomesticHousewife · 11/10/2019 23:36

It's possible that your period is just late as you're getting pre menstual symtoms. Or you could be pregnant.
I was pregnant when dd1 was 3 months old, itv was a long time ago now so I don't remember if my periods had even come back.

FrostyGirl66 · 11/10/2019 23:54

My 'withdrawal method' baby is now 5.

So yes, you can get pregnant on pre cum.

Selfdoubter123 · 12/10/2019 10:12

Tested this morning and bfn, so relieved but also a bit devastated that this is the new PMS Hmm

I researched about pre cum years ago (a wild Friday night in) and remember a study which said some men have sperm present and others don’t. I consider my DH to be in the sperm-less camp, purely because we had the year of using withdrawal with no pregnancy, but then fell on at first proper try. So I’d have been very surprised if I had been pregnant this time round!

Wouldn’t have been the end of the world at all, just a couple of months earlier than ideal. Thanks for the responses, now just to get used to this new hormonal thing...!

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