Question about mantinence

[shopaholic2]

Just a quick question ladies, does your ex give you child mantinence via private arrangement or CSA? If private do you do bank transfer or cash in hand etc. Just trying to figure out the norm? Any responses would be appreciated

I've just started my CSA claim and am due the first payment at the end of the month. I would suggest doing it by bank transfer so there is a record of it.
If your ex doesn't pay you can get them to escalate the case to collecting the money for you and sending it to you but this does involve fees

Private and bank transfer 1st of the month.
If he remembers. Pretty much if he remembers he has kids !!

Private and bank transfer on his payday (20th of month).

Thanks to everyone who responded

Private, pretty sure I’m untitled to
More but he does buy things he doesn’t have to. So might work out about right. Always on time has never let me down. Has his own things bottles clothes bibs everything. So it’s not much effort for me. He provides and pays for everything while he has her. He’s so organised about it all. So I’m very lucky in some ways.