Best Amazon Prime Day deals: Mumsnet favourites

Best Amazon Prime Day deals:
Mumsnet favourites

Shop now

Please or to access all these features

Parenting

For free parenting resources please check out the Early Years Alliance's Family Corner.

Messy house who’s responsible

4 replies

Yb23487643 · 25/05/2019 02:35

My partner wants to report me to social services for our messy house, leave me & take the children. They are infant school age & I work part time to look after them.
He does no cleaning & generally hates me, threatens to leave (I encourage but he doesn’t) & it’s getting me down.
Who would social services think is responsible for the messy house? Me & him equally I’d guess?
And I’ve been there main Carer so not sure how him wanting full custody would go down.
Any experience here?

OP posts:
HennyPennyHorror · 25/05/2019 03:33

Do you own or rent?

Get him out. He's abusive and trying to control you through fear. If it's a rental, report him for abuse...to the police. And whilst he's out have the locks changed.

Chippychipsforme · 25/05/2019 06:41

LTB.

He's not a partner, he's an abuser.

whocaresalot · 25/05/2019 06:45

Haven’t you posted this already?

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about these subjects:

LittleLongDog · 25/05/2019 06:48

Option 1) Kick him out. (& tidy your home.)

Option 2) Leave him.

It really doesn’t sound like you have a good relationship at all.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page