I'm in a bit of a state of shock tbh. I found out today that my 9 year old son told his friend at school his stepsister's (8) roblox password. Friend then logged in and changed a few things on her account,nothing massive,her avatar clothes and her tagline.
Son swore he hadn't done it and I only got to the bottom when I asked him did he know who had changed it. DS admitted giving him the password but says he didn't tell him what to do. Basically he says the conversation went like this
Mon
D's: My sister is annoying me..her roblox password is....
Tues
Ds friend: I logged into her account
I can't tell what I'm most upset at,the action and sharing of confidential info online (He's saying he didn't tell him to do anything,but admits that by giving the password he knew his friend might do something),the lying or the worry that this is what he does when she "annoys" him.
I'll be writing a letter to his teacher to tell her what's happened and to let the other boys parent know. And I've changed his password on his roblox account as you can't delete them.
He knows he's lost my trust and I'm disappointed, but what else can I do to make sure he understands the severity of his actions. Sure,this time it was a roblox account,next time her address?