My partners kids 9 and 4 show a lot of the symptoms of ADHD. We're looking to get them referred to a specialist to see if they can give a diagnosis. Well the eldest at least, the youngest is too young as of yet. Just wondered in the mean time if there's anything I can do to help them. The youngest is very emotional, messy, cries a lot over little things, can't focus on tasks, gets distracted easily, doesn't listen when we talk to him, struggles with very easy tasks, will change the way he feels about certain foods, clothes and games everyday so one day he likes something the next he doesn't. The oldest is very stroppy, very loud always shouting at us and the youngest, slams doors, constantly lies, steals food and money, is messy, does things he knows are bad, bullies the youngest etc and he's also been using his iPad to look at a lot of dark stuff like horror movie trailers and is obsessed with killer clowns. I have removed access to this kind of content now. Any thoughts/ideas?