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Baby using me as a pacifier

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CJ1990 · 08/01/2019 07:42

My daughter is almost 5 months old. She was pretty good at self settling for a while snd was giving me three hour stretches at night in between feeds. She’s breastfed. She

However just before Christmas she got sick and had an awful cough / cold for almost three weeks. She was waking up every hour so I’d just feed her back to sleep. Figured she needed the fluids. I tried Patting her to sleep as that sometimes works but it tried it for a little bit as felt mean with her being ill. Same with self settling for naps. I usually let her moan away for a bit but with her being sick I’d rock her to sleep or pat her until she went down.

However she’s now better and won’t self settle for naps (bed time was always a fight anyway) and is waking every hour or two and the only thing that’ll get her back to sleep is boob. She’s on that much she’s leaking out her nappy by the morning as she’s drank so much. The nappy is almost as heavy as her!!

Don’t know how to get back to normal- I feel she’s picked up habits as she was sick for so long :( but I just did what I thought was best while she was feeling crappy. although I’m wondering if it’s mixed in with the regression??

I’m just exhausted..any advice or input would be really helpful!

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MustBeAWeasly · 09/01/2019 22:51

Welcome to the depths of the 4 month sleep regression! It's truly awful 😣 shes becoming more aware of things and her sleep cycles have propery kicked in. She's having to learn how to self settle all over again and she needs your help to keep her calm and happy while she does it. You won't be teaching bad habits at this age. Just keep comforting try and push through it and it will pass!
Both of mine were horrific but I made it though.

KTD27 · 09/01/2019 22:53

whispers a pacifier was made to be used as a replacement for you not the other way around.
Go easy on her and on yourself there is light at the end of the tunnel. 4 months is a total bastard of a sleep regression just try to ride it out as you can together

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