Would you allow your 15 year old daughter to go to Spain with her best friend and her sister who is 21

[cmiddlwton]

The best friend is 15 the best friends sister is 21 and they invited my daughter to Spain. Would you say no?

I'd definitely say no

Absolutely not

Absolutely not

Nope!

No definitely not. My friends went when they were 16/17, I wasnt there thank god,because some of the stories they came back and told be were actually frightening. I was so glad I wasn't there.

Noooooo

No

No definitely not.

No way! Too much responsibility for the 21 y/o taking care of 2 x 15 y/os. Her own sister fair enough, their parents’ call, but I wouldn’t want my teenage daughter going away with someone likely to be going to bars etc.

Does depend a little on the sister I guess - if I knew her and was sure she was sensible and trustworthy, more likely to read books and visit galleries than go clubbing I might be happier about it, but I really can’t see it. Just being responsible for them while travelling could be stressful. I struggle taking my DCs on holiday on my own and I’ve had 7 years practice!

I certainly wouldn’t want my eldest in charge of my two younger kids - it’s too much.

Do no parents just the 21 year old?

Why would she want to even do that? If they had a fight and the youngest walked off what then? Their parents must be mad allowing them to go!!

Depends. A villa in a village away from resorts then yes. A alcohol heavy resort then no.

Over my dead body.

No way. Madness

No way.

Well she won't be 15 on holiday, she'll be 21. If you're happy with this, send her.

No, don't be silly.

Not a hope!!

NO!

No

I would have thought this very unreasonable when I was 15 (and 21), but thinking back to the choices i made at those ages YANBU!

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No.

Big No
Slightly surprised at a 21 yo wanting to holiday with 2 kids, where are her own friends?

From my previous post about my daughter going abroad with a 21 year old.

I am very disappointed in you parents for judging a 21year old mother on wanting to take her sister and my daughter on a family holiday.

Not all 21 year olds want to get drunk. She is very responsible and isn't a loner as someone said for wanting to take children. She is bringing a friend to and thought of taking my daughter because her sister would be home alone in the U.K. as her mother has recently passed.
You are all very judgemental and I think there's a massive difference from being protective and being a dick.

So 2 21 yo and 2 15 yo? Are you sure they are not intending to party?

So is the 21 year old not taking her own child?
She is only taking her sister and the sisters friend?

Not on your nelly. I'm assuming from your second post that you're actually the daughter..