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Would you allow your 15 year old daughter to go to Spain with her best friend and her sister who is 21

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cmiddlwton · 07/01/2019 00:21

The best friend is 15 the best friends sister is 21 and they invited my daughter to Spain. Would you say no?

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EdtheBear · 08/01/2019 12:57

Paul what good is a GPS tracker if the parents are a flight away???

TigerQuoll · 08/01/2019 19:42

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TigerQuoll · 08/01/2019 19:42

Sounds like the beginning of a Liam Neeson movie (where the daughter gets kidnapped abroad and the father has to investigate and try to find her before she is sold off as a sex slave)

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violetxo · 08/01/2019 19:49

Watch the film 'TAKEN' with Liam Neeson in and then ask yourself if you would let her go ....

RhubarbTea · 08/01/2019 21:37

No.

DiaryofWimpyMum · 08/01/2019 21:43

No way

Bluemascara4 · 08/01/2019 21:44

Just no

whyameyehere · 08/01/2019 22:38

Depends on the kids my dm paid for me(21)and dsis(16) to go away to menorca for 2 weeks after I'd finished my degree and dsis her gcses. But neither of us were party animals, both rather be reading/watching tv.

IMissGin · 08/01/2019 22:41

I’m pretty laid back but absolutely not

waterandlemonjuice · 08/01/2019 22:41

Nfw

waterandlemonjuice · 08/01/2019 22:44

And I say NFW as someone with both a 21yo and a 15yo

StarUtopia · 08/01/2019 22:45

Is this one of those posts where every single reply is "NO" yet all the OP hears is, you're all being horrible.

Just to add. No. You'd be an idiot!

NoLeslie · 08/01/2019 22:47

I went to Spain with a friend when we were 16. I had far too much fun!!!!! It's a no from me.

Areyouongluedear · 08/01/2019 22:55

TigerQuoll

“Sounds like the beginning of a Liam Neeson movie (where the daughter gets kidnapped abroad and the father has to investigate and try to find her before she is sold off as a sex slave)“

Grin i laughed so much I knocked over my tea and woke the baby

Areyouongluedear · 08/01/2019 22:56

TATQ would I fuck! It’s a no from me.

dalmatianmad · 08/01/2019 23:00

Absolutely not and I'm very laid back. That's an accident waiting to happen.

Janus · 08/01/2019 23:04

Crikey if you wrote all that in English I might understand what you are asking!!
So who exactly is going, who has a baby, where is the baby, the father of the baby is going or the father of the 21 year old. Sorry but you have written that in about the most confusing way possible for me!
Start again, explain clearly and also what kind of holiday is it - a quiet out of the way villa or Ibiza, it’s all relevant to make a proper judgement.

steppemum · 08/01/2019 23:18

well, to your first post, no way.

after your second post, hmm, maybe.
That scenario is quite different.

I went away as a teen with older famly teens, but it was in a more controlled setting.

The 21 year old is a mother. That does change things for me, simply because she has responsibilities and has had to learn to be an adult and a mother.
But 2 x 15 year olds let lose in Ibiza? I wouldn't want to.

louise5754 · 09/01/2019 09:59

Have you decided if she can go yet OP?

DioneTheDiabolist · 09/01/2019 10:09

No to your first post. And definitely NO after the second.Shock No way would I want my teenage child in that situation. The 21yo's responsibility will be her baby, not her sister and not your DD. The Ex boyfriend just adds to the risk of something going wrong.

Sexnotgender · 09/01/2019 10:16

Perhaps all the information at the start would have been helpful...

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