Now my eldest is getting older I'm worried she's going to ask questions about my past, or I'm worried family are going to tell her personal things about me that I'd rather her not know until she's a fully grown adult and then maybe able to understand. After she was born I went through a really horrible time and it made me very depressed, I'm really scared it'll come up sooner or later and I'm worried she'll hate me for certain things that happened even though they didn't involve her. Have your kids ever approached you about a part of your past and how did you handle the situation?