Ok so, I have a 4yo son and a 6yo daughter, and they have such bad tantrums. Usually when they've been told no. They literally act like spoilt brats (harsh but true) and we haven't brought them up that way. They don't get everything they ask for. We don't give in when they do have tantrums etc etc. My son kicks people and screams at the top of his lungs and my daughter will cry for an hour or even longer and I have no idea how to stop this. It's not so bad at home, apart from the neighbours probably thinking were murdering them, but when we are at other people's homes it ends up very, very embarrassing. Any advice/tips welcome. TIA x