Decisions get her in a right pickle. She’s been in tears before in a newsagent not knowing what sweets to pick after 10 minutes of “that..... no, wait..... that...... or maybe this..... oh I’m not sure..... that..... but I want that too......”
I try to limit the choices, I try to give her more time, less time, reassure her she always makes good choices, try not to make a thing out of it when she’s being indecisive etc but she still struggles. Even when she’s decided on something I often then need to help her feel confident it was the right choice. She worries about it not working out well or not being better than someone else’s choice.
Her 4 year old sister is the opposite. Ask her a question or to make her mind up or choose and she’s there with a response and is perfectly happy with her decision.
How do I help my big girl not get stressed and have more faith in making a decision? How do I help her realize that it doesn’t matter if something doesn’t work out or doesn’t appear as good as someone else’s? It’s driving her (and me!) nuts.