I’m not sure what went wrong? She was always so chilled and amiable but now she’s getting bad reports as all her clubs for not listening or refusing to partake in activities at the club. Wish I could say it was just one club but seems to be happening in all of them! She is the same with us and at school, her new teacher made a point of coming out on Friday to say for once in her life she was being helpful. Her DS used to be like this a bit and I thought she was worse but one of the teachers commented she thought my 6 YO was worse. Is there a phase they go through at this age?