ok
she went straight to toilet
has been dry since day one which has been great
but
poo
she will say "oh i need a wee wee" like every 2 minutes and i know its not a wee its a poo she needs, cos of the frequency
but she sits on the loo and wont push or squeeze, becuase nothing comes out immediatly she says she finished. she waits til it is touching cloth and then of course poo stain is on pants and she gets upset
how can i
a. convicne ehr to sit for longer periods on loo (tried books etc no joy)
b. stop her being afraid (she clearly IS afraid)