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How to deal with blushing + baby

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yesok · 10/06/2018 21:42

And when I mean blushing, I mean going bright red at the drop of a hat. If somebody speaks to me unexpectedly I go red. If I bump into somebody I know in the street I go red. Sometimes I go red mid conversation. You get the picture. I’m very pregnant at the mo. Can’t imagine how I’ll deal with screaming baby in Sainsbury’s, or a poonami at the docs etc etc. Please tell me I’m not going to be a constant, bright red, mess? Any tips from shy mums? Any tips on how not to go red!?

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LapinR0se · 10/06/2018 21:45

The baby will take up so much of your attention and focus that you’ll forget to blush. Take it from one who knows

yesok · 11/06/2018 11:12

Thank you, that’s good to hear! So did you find having a baby helped with this kind of thing? Maybe this is the therapy I need!

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Iputthescrewinthetuna · 11/06/2018 11:28

Before I became a mum, I was so unsure of myself. Never spoke out, was quiet around new people, blushed a lot!
I now have 3 kids! A Poonami in the most inconvenient place is every day life, I now laugh at my misfortune. Baby screaming the place down because I dared to wipe her face is part of the course, I now tell her 'I am so sorry that I am such a rubbish mummy trying to keep you clean in public'
People now laugh, I don't blush.
I find finding the funny side makes life easier!
The only time I blushed was when I was teaching my DD colours. On the bus, red car, blue car, yellow flower etc.
A poor lady got on the bus, who quite frankly looked like she lost a fight with her foundation. My DD, in the loudest voice on the quietest bus pointed at this lady and said 'look mummy, orange lady'
I not only blushed, I got off the bus so incredibly fast.
Don't worry, find the humour and find the funny side of your child pooping in the drs! Its the only way I survived!

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Iputthescrewinthetuna · 11/06/2018 11:30

I've just read my post. I'm sorry, that was probably no help at all. You will be fine, I promise!

yesok · 11/06/2018 11:37

No, it’s a big help & so comforting to hear! I often find myself wondering how I’ll cope, but this gives me faith that I’ll be OK...I think!

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yesok · 11/06/2018 11:41

“Orange lady” is hilarious by the way! Definitely would have been blush central for me too though!!

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Iputthescrewinthetuna · 11/06/2018 12:51

Orange lady was probably the most horrifying moment ever. I look back and laugh now though.

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