I have a 6 month old baby and i split with my partner 6 weeks ago because he was treating me badly ever since LO was born. He now lives with his mother but has a huge family who spend mostly every day all day at his mothers house. It was a bitter break up and for the first 4 weeks there was alot of nasty things said and alot of arguements between him and me, he would repeat all this back to his family who would have an opinion on everything that was said and done.
My ex and myself have now come to an agreement where he has the baby for 3 hours every second day of the week and all day on a sunday we have even managed to sort out our differences and are on friendly terms now. My problem is his family, i feel as though they are overstepping the mark with our child. They have advised him to go to lawyer to get child taken off me, they have told him that they have checked on the internet and hes paying too much maintenance so he should reduce it, they have bought my little one clothes and when he goes to visit they strip him out of the clothes i put on and dress him in their clothes then redress him in my clothes to bring him home.
One of the main arguements me and my ex had were about his family and that he tells them too much of our business my ex wont stand up and tell them to butt out and its now really annoying me because its not even the grandparents to LO or aunts and uncles its silly little 20 year old girls who are only cousins to LO.
I cant talk to them as we just dont talk how do i put a stop to this and get them out of my business im at the point where im thinking about stopping my son from going there as the things they do and say anger me so much