My dh has just asked me if ive lost any weight yet and when will my big fat belly go. He is asking this as i sit cuddling my one day old baby. He is being such a dick just sat in the chair on otherside of room all through labour and birth. Brought me some flowers and then shouted you havent even put the fucking flowers in the vase! He hates all tge names on my listwhich all mean something personal to me and when i ask him what names he likes he says he doesnt know so looks at lists on his phone and throws random names at me demanding explanation as to why i dont like them, yet when i ask him why he doesnt like my list he says they r just stupid. !!i could go on!!