My son is 7, he started school refusal beginning of year 2 and has ended up now home educating due to high anxiety and meltdowns. He has been referred to be assessed for adhd and autism since November but still on waiting list. He doesn't sleep and is now refusing to leave the house even go to his dads on the weekend which he has always been excited to go previously. His dad is upset obviously but I can't force him can I? School haven't been in touch or anyone for that matter and his behaviour is becoming worse. What can I do? Docs? I'm lost I've had to finish working because of this situation and can't wait another year to see neuro department 