HELP - cant see the wood for the trees...

[autumnlover]

okay, can someone please give me some advice on how to do bath & bedtime routine with 3 kids.

i have 5yr old, an very active 22mth old and 9wk old. 9 week old has no routine and feeding on demand and at the moment only sleeps when on me so he is mostly in a sling in the evenings.

how how do i do bathtime and bedtime?? have tried in a couple of ways and still have one or two of them crying. bath really isnt big enough for all 3 of them.

please please help

When I had to do bath and bed for a two-year-old and a tiny baby while DH was away, I used to bath them together then DD would drink her milk while I fed DS and we all sat together in mummy's bed (big treat...). She would then watch a bit of a video in my bed while I settled DS then she would have her story and bedtime stuff while he slept.
You could do this and then just bath the eldest one alone after the other two have gone down (if they do!). They'd probably love the one on one time with you.
Don't worry about the wee one - he will settle down soon, I'm sure