How do you arrange Mother's Day

[Nkhutch]

Dds father and I are separated, and have always been amicable in terms of celebrating things. Birthdays/ Christmas is always split down the middle, our personal birthdays we always try and arrange so the parent can spend time with dd. When it comes to Mother's Day I feel I loose out a little. I've never had a full Mother's Day with dd since we seperated. I have her til 1:30- 2pm today and wish I could have had her longer, but pretty sure dds dad will collect her earlier as he wanted her from 1pm. He always gets a full Father's Day with her as Sunday is his day but I only get half a day. I by no means want to take his time away from her though. How does every else split it if it's on the other parents day ?

Our agreement is that irrespective of who's day/weekend it is DS is returned to the relevant parent at 5pm on the Saturday until 5pm on the Sunday so that they get the full day.

However as DS actually lives with his dad & stepmum he will go back at 3pm today so that he can spend some time with her today.

We always make sure DSD is with dad on Father’s Day and Mum on Mother’s Day so this was our weekend with her but we swapped it so she could spend it with her Mum. It’s only a couple of days a year.