I’m at my wits end with my DD she is 16 and for the past 2 years her behaviour has been getting steadily worse more so in the past 4/5 months, she is constantly in her room watching Netflix, doesnt go out, doesn’t eat unless it junk food and that’s only at night as she can go all day without eating or drinking even when it’s mad or offered, she hasn’t been to school fo the past 3 weeks, she is being seen by camhs at the moment although hasn’t had an actual therapist appointment only the initial one and that was back in Aug, we were relatively close but she has got to the stage she says she hates me doesn’t want to be here etc etc, I had booked a nite away in a hotel which is suppose to be tonight but she’s saying she’s not going this was booked back in nov and was suppose to be a break for her after her prelims, on Thursday I had a message at my work from her saying she needed me and could I come home ASAP which I did to find her curled up in a ball beside her bed saying she didn’t want to be here anymore I said I thought it had gone on long enough and took her to A&E as advised by doctor there she spoke to a psychiatrist liaison officer who is now going to get the intensive care team involved and they will be out to see her on mon, she hasn’t spoke to me since even though I tried to get her to understand it was for the best as she self harms etc and that I care for her and want to do the best for her, she screamed at me last nite and I told her if she didn’t really want to live in the house any longer I would speak to the team and see if we could sort something else out I told her this is the last thing I want but I just want to make her happy, also do I go to the hotel myself and stay, or take one of my sons who says he would like to go, hubby and Dd’s are away out for the day and won’t be back until later so means she would be in the house herself for a few hours, or do I just try and make her go?