Hi, trying to figure out where we stand. my partner has a little girl age 6 with his ex and for the last 3 1/2 years the arrangement has been 3 days one week 4 days the second so 50/50 on saying this we have her more ! shes regular too hungover to take her back and in holidays she takes no time off so we have her more. Over xmas out of 14 days we had her 11. we take her on holiday every year for 10 days and so on. There is no legal agreement in place. We do all the travel which is 40 miles there 40 miles back we do 6 trips week one to take her and collect her from school and week 2 is 4 trips. We pay for everything our end school clothes, shoes, coats, clothes, etc etc. She has little involvement with school he attends all school plays etc and pays for everything to do with school. She claims benefits for her which has never interested us in splitting or causing a problem there. Now however for a reason we do not know she has gone to the CSA. I have two other children and the travel is a big bill. Where do we stand legally. Surly he shouldn't have to pay her anything as its 50/50 and our outgoings are much more.