Am i a horrible mum?

[Goodhair]

I work in healthcare. Just looking at my Rota and I will be working 5 nights next week.DC is barely 2 years old. I feel so terrible.

You're working to provide for your child, I can't see anything wrong at all

It's not your fault, presumably childcare in place?

You're a fucking legend

Yes DH stays with her all night.
Thanks for all the lovely replies, I just miss DD so much while at work and sometimes I wonder if I'm doing the right thing

Are you leaving them alone to fend for Their self???

I'm guessing not so take a deep breath and give yourself a shake. You're doing nothing wrong !!!!!

She's with her dad and she's asleep for most of it anyway. She's not suffering. You must be knackered though

Of course not! You're amazing xx

I am going to repeat...
You're a fucking legend!!

There is no 'right' thing. They need love. The rest is whatever works to keep the world spinning..

Thank you so much everyone, I'm feeling a bit better now xx

It's no different to working days and putting your child in eg nursery, which loads of people do. And what a great role model you are for her!