Ds is 6 and dsd is 9. Both old enough to know better.
Today, the two of them were upstairs, I assumed playing in their room. When I went up they'd been in mine and dh room, they'd completely tossed our bed, all the bedding in a heap, even the mattress protector ..they'd also taken down all the pictures I have in the wall, a sort of collage of pic of me and dh with different friends. Some of the pics were damaged. I asked them why on earth they'd done it and they laughed and blamed our cat. ..
Dsd left straight after I found it, back to her mums, so I only have ds here. He's saying it was all dsd fault and is in floods of tears after I told him how upset I am about my pictures. I'm not sure what to do. It doesn't seem fair that he get punished but dsd doesn't..
I don't know what I'm more upset about .. the complete disregard for my belongings, or the fact that they really didn't care that they'd done it. I try so hard to be a good mum and especially step mum.