So it's my sons 3rd birthday tomorrow, having a little party tea, invited immediate family only but one of the grandparents hasn't even had the courtesy to message back to let us know if he's coming or not. Drives me insane. He's seen my little girl once, she's now 7m. Reckons he'll have the kids when they turn 5 as they can sort themselves out. My partner forgot his birthday and text him to apologise (he was abroad anyway) but I didn't get a card for my birthday (which is fine if he wants to be like that) but I have a very strong feeling he won't give my son a card tomorrow! If not I'm done with him. He can take his crap out on me and my partner but not my kids! X