Morning
My new partner of five years has been offered a job in Dundee. My ex partner who is child's dad, has already said no in written letter form.
My son is eight years old and sees his dad every second eeekend.
His dad has a new partner with a 1year old and is pregnant with another.
I told his dad on Friday verbally about the job and asked him to talk to his own partner about it. H has come back and said no straight away with asking any questions about holidays and access at all.
We would be moving closer to miss u family as I'm f on there. I would have more help from my parents, be working less and would not have a childminder to look after Ben. We both work full time here with Ben going to childminder in mornings and after school, but there I would be working party time school hours and have Ben more. He would see his cousins more.
The father doesn't want to talk about it and keeps saying no no no. He isn't even trying.
Can I get some information please