hi,
no i dont have daughters, just 2 very young sons
but im only 22 myself and still feel like a teen sometimes, lol
i think ill be very acceping of things like this as my sons grow, i just dont feel like its a big deal iykim
as long as my kids are happy, healthy, doing well in school, are friends with the right people and arent doing anything they arent supposed to then they should be free to express themselves
by the time i was 18, i had my ears pierced 5 times, my tongue, my bellybutton, my lip, my septum (the inbetween of my nose) the bridge of my nose (inbetween my eyes), and a genital piercing
BUT this didnt reflect my behaviour, ive NEVER smoked, never done any drigs, never been drunk, didnt have a boyfriend till i was nearly 16
i dont know if im going off track here, i usually do! - but i just think if your daughter is a good girl, and shes prepared to take responsibility or her piercings - clean them properly, find a reputable piercer ect
then theres no reason not to let her, in my opinion
of course other people may disagree, for whatever reason,
i think you have to sit down and have a talk with her and see what she has to say