I am really struggling with my other half. Our daughter is 10 months old and I have just returned to work, however I feel like a lone parent. He won't put her to bed as he says she's gets upset and he can't cope. He doesn't get up in the night with her for the same reason and he shouts and swears at her in the morning if she's up before 6. I work 10 hour days, 4 days a week. I get up once a night with her, usually around 4am, then we get up around 7. I get us both dressed, she has breakfast and we're on a train by 8 where I drop her to her grandmothers before I go to work. I pick her up when I finish and we catch train home. Then we do bath and bed and finally sit down around 7pm. During this time dh would be at work from 7-4 and then would typically cook dinner. Is this normal? On the few occasions (4 so far) he has her all day I worry all day because he will just nap whilst she is roaming the house, he loses his temper with her too quickly. I don't know what to do, I need to work for financial reasons