My little love still has problems getting to the loo - actually just doesn't go just uses pants instead. His teacher is obviously upset and I'm due to see the school nurse tomorrow to discuss problem. He hasn't got special needs. I've tried using a reward chart, lots of encouragement and NO SHOUTING OR TELLING OFF to no avail. He only uses the toilet if we send him. HELP!!!! I've run out of ideas. The teacher and classroom assistant have to send him to the toilet.