I have just found out I'm pregnant with my 3rd child (DD is 4 and DS is 2). This was unplanned and we are now debating what to do. DH isn't keen, he found going from 1 to 2 and DS quite trying (reflux till 12 months, vomiting everywhere all the time; a big boy, very energetic, bounces off the wall, a bit of a handful; constant refereeing between the 2) and only now feels like things are easier. Not mentioning the cost; having to move to a bigger house away from where we are and love (we have a 3 bed); sacrificing the next 2 years (small child hence exhaustion etc); and finally depriving my other children of attention. I understand all of those reasons, but I've always wanted another and I don't know whether I can bring myself to terminate. What would you do? (And yes fully aware of the stupidity/irresponsible nature of unplanned pregnancies!).