going from 1 to 2

[kosh71]

can you please tell me exactly how difficult this was?
my DS is 4yo and was an extremely high needs baby and I was a mess as a first time mum. I do not think I left the house during the first 3 months?
I guess that some of it would be easier as I'd know a bit more this time around.
can you please describe some of your experience? how did you cope? how much support do you have? do you work now?

thanks!

Oh, and I went back to work when DS was 6months. Hard work getting home to two to get fed, washed and bed but manageable (and while my job is challenging for me work is essential to my sanity!)