Or do they not even give them?
DS (8) is awful for them at the moment. Screwing his face up and giving me filthy looks over the smallest thing. For example he just tried to get his sister in trouble by exaggerating something she had done. I said why are you getting involved? He had come from another room to tell me what she had done (ripped a book up). She hadn't ripped it up, she had torn a page out of her own notebook.
He gave me the filthiest scowl in return. Do you ignore or not