I was so against the idea of a dummy but id be completely lost without it as my DS is a sucky baby (and currently teething so ALWAYS wants something in his mouth)
Get some tommie tippie dispenser pots if your going away and your not bringing your perfect prep (i wanted one of them but my DS hates warm milk and only drinks room temp bottles) so you can prep for the night feeds and not be misscounting scoops at half 3 in the morning!
Im a muzzy worshiper! Buy all the muslin cloths you can find (asdas has packs of 6 for £5 at the moment)
My biggest advice? When your baby is napping during the day, NAP AS WELL. im kucking myself for faffing around with ironing or cleaning up after myself when little man was snoozing, now hes 2 months old and power has 10 min power naps at rare occassions during throughout the day.
Home delivery is a great shout, going to start doing that!
Accept help if offered. Your totally allowed to go have a bath while a friend or family member looks after little one. Look after yourself otherwise your going to struggle looking after your baby.
Congratulations, its a gorgeous time! 