A female family friend of ours who is fairly involved with our children was wearing lipstick. My almost 3 year old daughter (who took an interest in the lipstick) was asked by the friend to kiss her on the lips 'lots' to get some on herself.
As a family we are cheek kissers not lips but I appreciate some families are lip kissers but she is not family, not even that close a friend. We refer to my close friends as aunties for example, this really is just a friend. Younger than me, without children who I have not known for long.
It was the friend who told me of the incident not my child, she thought it amusing. In fact she told me more than once, as though checking it was ok. I didn't know what to say! I kind of brushed it off.
Am I over reacting? What would you do?