Hello, I'm after some advice for my two children. Basically my two sons 9 and 4, bicker constantly and it's really affecting me at the moment. I'm exhausted and just don't know how to deal with things, in order to restore some calmness in the house. They mostly bicker, sometimes a bit of pushing and pushing past one another (the oldest one is the main culprit for that). They don't try to solve their differences because to be honest there isn't any, they just like to wind one another up constantly. They both come to me and tell me what the other has done etc, but as I don't witness it, it's very difficult to know what has actually happened. How do I deal with this? The house has become stressful as a result. Generally, they do play well, when they do play together and they are close brothers, but I feel we really need something in place. Thanks for reading!