Dd only one not invited to the party again

[Benandhollyonrepeat]

I posted last year as my Dd, who is in a class with only 8 girls in it, was the only girl not invited to this girls party. All the other 7 girls went and understandably my dd was upset. I wanted to ask the mum why but after advice from here decided to just let it drop and try and cheer dd up. Anyway fast forward a year and this girl has been to ours for play dates etc and my other dd and her other dd do after school clubs together so at least once a week we are together waiting for them and have got fairly friendly. So it's her party time again and I just can not believe that's is all happening again and she has invited the other 7 and not my dd again. What is wrong with the woman and her kid. Totally understand that she doesn't have to like my dd or have to invite her but really two years running to invite everyone and not dd is just too much. Dd is again upset and I am furious. Why would you do this to one child not once but twice. Her dd bought up the party in front of us y'day and the mother quickly hushed her up and the dd said 'oh yes not in front of x (my dd). So do you think it's ok to ask her (politely) what's going on and why this is happening again. Feel so sorry for my lovely little girl.

Well, all else aside, she clearly has zero interest in fostering any sort of friendship, so I'd take that message loud and clear, and focus your efforts on kinder people.

It's easy to assume everyone's going but it it probably isn't the case.

I don't differentiate between boy and girl friendships - so would be only 5 in a class of 20 (or what ever) going.

Well done for confronting her - at least she knows now that you're aware & won't just sit back & not address things. I'd definitely not be having anymore play dates though we they don't sound like very nice people.