do you think this is mean

[cedar12]

My dd is wetting herself again she is 3.6 now. started star chart and ignored any wetting. Not much improvment with star chart but will keep going with it until the end of the week. Had a thought this morning if she wets at a friends house because she is to busy I wont change her clothes just go home no comment ignoring any complients from her and change her when we get home. She knows i am sure when she needs to go just choose to ignore it.

yes I do.

yep

i know how frustrating this can be. i would just change her without any fuss or attention. you could make her change of clothes clothes that she does not like so much. could she have a wee infection or something causing teh wetting.

I also know very much how frustrating this is, but 10 to 1 she isn't doing it on purpose to piss you off. taking her away from a friend's house is a big punishment at that age, and she is still very young, can't you just make sure she goes to the toilet regularly?

Ds recently regressed for a couple of days. But now he has had a developmental spurt and I'm sure that is the reason.

I thought so, its just a pain.