I think I may be pregnant

[milkyman]

I think I am 9dpo but I have heavy boobs and feel dizzy. Test says negative but I know it's too early. I am 39 and have 2.5 old ds. I had unplanned pregnacy last year and had mc. This is again unplanned as we hasn't made up our mind yet but now I think I am and not sure I want to be. What are the chances of mc at my age (not that I would want this). DS has been nightmare today and not sure I can cope going through it all again with a toddler.

I need reassurance please.

I think the only thing you can really do is wait and re-take the test. Or perhaps get one of those early detecting ones (whatever they're called?) I know it's an anxious wait but would you really be satisfied if the test was negative early on or not doing it at the "right" time, first morning urine and all?

I've had a few scares. Panicking because I think I have pregnancy symptoms, but actually each time I took a test, it was negative. I think it's yourself that picks up on small things that you can easily put down to pregnancy because you're that bothered by it. And if this is how you're feeling then maybe put having a 2nd off for a bit until you've gathered your thoughts properly.