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Been a shouty mummy tonight. Oh the guilt:(

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ChangeYouFucker · 10/12/2014 20:45

I feel terrible. I usually have lots of patience and try to use gentle approaches to bedtime.

But not tonight:(

DH gone out and I've been working all day and DD was being a nightmare. I ended up shouting at her and calling her very naughty.

Really shouting.

I hate it when I turn into shouty mummy.

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Davinaaddict · 10/12/2014 21:27

I could have written your post tonight Sad My DH has also gone out & DD is seriously over tired. I had to leave her to cry for a bit, whilst I got a grip. Went back in and we had nice cuddles. She's now snuggled up in our bed. The guilt is horrid Sad

soupmaker · 10/12/2014 21:28

That'll be because your human. It's really not worth feeling guilty about. Take a deep breath, tomorrow is another day.

puntasticusername · 10/12/2014 21:34

Sympathy Thanks

We've all been there. Have a Wine, relax and forgive yourself. Tomorrow, give your DD a cuddle and say sorry. It does no harm for children to know that Mummy, as well as they, sometimes gets things wrong and has to say sorry. I think it's good behaviour to model for them.

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somewhatavoidant · 10/12/2014 21:43

If you get it mostly right most of the time, you're doing great. Be proud of yourself & forgive yourself the odd mistake!

ChangeYouFucker · 10/12/2014 22:00

Thanks for your comments :)

I hate it when I know I did it wrong.

But beating self up does not help either.

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ChangeYouFucker · 10/12/2014 22:01

Davina - it sounds like your DC was quiet happy in the end!

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Davinaaddict · 11/12/2014 22:35

Sorry - I crashed out. I was over tired as well Smile She was! Although still being a grump today apparently. Let's hope she sleeps all night tonight. How was today for you? Better I hope.

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