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Why do I bother!!!!!!

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swift1 · 07/10/2006 10:08

Hi everyone, just really need to sound off, so feel free to leave !!

Dh and I have had leave from work this week with dd ,2. She has been a bit poorly, and this has reulted in her having some late p.m sleeps I have suggested to dh that we dont let her sleep so late in the afternoon, or wake her after 10mins, which he has said no to. SO this week she has gone to bed at 10.30 , 11.30, which has resulted in dh getting arsy with her cos she wont sleep.

Yesterday my dsk arrived, aged 10 and 8, and they dont usually go to bed with us till 9ish, by which time dd is in bed . However, yest she slept for 1/2 hour till 4.30p.m at which time I woke her against dh wishes. So last night at 9pm I have the 3 of them messing around downstairs, then the 8 yr old gets out the sweets I asked him noyt to eat till dd is in bed, then dh gives dd hers as its nit fair, and my house is bedlam, whixch I dont think is on at 9pm at night.

Mt 2 dsk go to bed at 10 and then dd at 10.30. What a joke!

Then , to really start my saturday in a good mood, I wake at 7am to find dss sat on my bed fully dressed!!!

Then later when I come downstairs, I find dd eating her cocoa pops with no apron on, chocolate milk all down her and I had JUST put the wshing on.

Then my dh lets her baloon go out the back door, which we decided not to do yesterday cos she was crying about it, so she is balling her eyes out.

Then the cat from over the back is let in the house, leaving dirty footprints all over my kitchen so dh can feed him corned beef!!!!!!

ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

its just ive been asking not to let the cat in, and put an apron on dd for , well at least a year. Dont u ever feel , no one listenns to me, wjhat the point? it may sound trivila but Im the one who does the wshing, im the one who will have to clean up the floor.

THeyve all gone out on a bike ride now, and i refused to go , wanting the time to myself.
My house needs cleaning i and just think why bother,so they can come and mess it up again?

If he comes back and has bought dd sweets I will go f##cking mad.

ahh thats better

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Are your children’s vaccines up to date?
wakeupandsmellthecoffee · 07/10/2006 10:26

Go out to a cafe and have some lunch and let them get on with it ,or on second thoughts go and see a friend NOW and stay the night . LOL

swift1 · 07/10/2006 11:57

Yes WakeUP I think he will. Theyve just got in, eating sweets right before lunch, I am goin out and dont think Im coming back.

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pindy · 07/10/2006 12:40

I want to come with you - sounds just like this house today! HELP!!!!!!!!

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