ds (4) keeps having accidents

[whoopsfallenoveragain]

I am getting really fed up of picking him up from nursery and finding he has soiled himself
He today has come home in girls trousers which he got upset about.
would I be cruel putting him a skirt as his change of clothes to try and get him to go to the toilet?

how would he feel being put back in nappies. Is there any reason he could be unsettled any changes coming up?

is he constipated?

to explain - chronic constipation can mean faeces leaks from the bowel and looks like the child is having accidents all the time.

trip to GP to check him out physically would be my first stop.

give him time to get used to it, it took quite a while with my ds, i think they get lazy about it!

summerh hols are a great time for him to get used to it