Me and my fiance have a 18 month old son and have just received court proceedings from his mum (our sons grandmother) for a defined contact order.
we have not spoken to her in 12 years as she caused a lot of trouble in the early part of our relationship.
when we had our son she then pushed letters through my parents door where i lived demanding she saw him.
i am not entitled to legal aid and cant afford a solicitor so will be representing ourselves in court.
Any ideas what to expect or what to do! Im am terrified!