That's just it, really. Poor chap is having a tough time adjusting to our baby (takes a knock every time she takes a step forward iyswim) and has always been on the feral highly-strung end of the spectrum. We see a few smallish groups of children quite regularly and I find it really difficult to keep connected with him while we're with them, so it's as if he's in a world of his own - I can't get his attention, much less his cooperation. Suggestions?