DS1 is 11 and now at High School, has a mobile phone and a laptop of his own which is uses for homework and also Minecraft/Skype etc... now he is squirreled away in his room on his laptop I feel a bit wary of what he may be looking at/talking about on forums etc.
I have put parental controls on for certain sites and 18yrs plus sites etc but should I be checking on what he is doing on there ? and if so how? (he is much more techy than me and I think he if knew I was checking up on him he would delete anything he thinks I shouldn't see) ... or am I being a nosey cow over protective mother ?