- time do you spend having to listen to your kids arguing with each other?
- time do you spend telling the kids not to do/say the same things you have told them a million times?
- money do you spend replacing or fixing or throwing out things the kids have broken?
Our children are 8-12 and we spend most of our time in a war zone, not enjoying parenting, and finding damage to the house/toys/things more often than can be normal.