My 9ds looks at me gone out if I put down any finger foods for him. Tried toast, pasta , fruit, goodies treats, just not keen at all. I have tried at the start of meals during. Done them separately to meal times. He may pick them up most times not, anything else I put in front of him that's not food he is like a vulture to get his hands on it. Any top tips ladies. He eats fine with me feeding him. Polishes off all three courses pud is his favourite. He has eggs scrambled and other lumped bits