My DS is nearly 3 weeks old and has already got himself into a routine of feeding every 3 hours at night and pretty much sleeps 9pm til 8am each night only stirring to eat but during the day he is awake for 4 hours solid, sleeps for 4 hours then awake for 4 hours, this is fine as he's not crying only slightly whingey towards the end of the 4 hours, it's just that every book and website says newborns wont stay awake for more than 45mins at a time and also encourages 3 hour cycles of eat sleep play if you want to get them to sleep through the night later on, does this matter? Should I be manipulating his routine? How do you do that? I find it impossible to wake him when he's out cold or to get him to sleep during a 4 hour awake window, he just does it when he's ready!