Hi,
It would seem that separation anxiety has arrived for my usually independent, determined 8 month old. Whilst I think its great that he's developing and enjoying the extra mummy cuddles that usually he is too busy to give I need some advice.
My LO has always struggled to settle but usually can be convinced to do so in the car, after a very long walk or in a quiet dark room in his cot (maybe after a little complaint).
From a younger age he has never been able to sleep in a busy place or in somebodies arms where frankly there is too much potential fun going on. Gentle rocking will never do! Walking around with him in your arms may stop him crying but won't bring around sleep no matter how much you pace and will only give you some strong legs.
This has largely speaking been quite manageable as he can sleep in cot. HOWEVER, now he doesn't wish to be alone putting him in his cot for naps is a nightmare. When he would usually take 10 mins (at most) to settle is taking up to an hour. I walk into the room - fine. Even think of going towards door - not fine. As I said before, he won't settle in my arms or even if I sit there ignoring him to stop him crying as clearly there is potential fun to be had (crawling to side of cot and reaching out smiling etc.) even when he is clearly tired.
Anybody have any ideas?
Cheers!
Sian