My DD is 13 months old. She is a happy, healthy little girl who is hitting all of her milestones. She sleeps through the night, plays happily by herself and with her parents, and has a very healthy appetite. She doesn't have any words yet, but chats to us in babble, can make her feelins and wants known, and understands a lot of what is said to her.
The following, however, is a list of things that my wife and I have done which may well be 'wrong' and disapproved of. Any criticism; bring it!
She was born by elective c-section.
She was formula, not breast, fed, and I believe that this was best for her.
When she grew out of hr Moses basket at around 3months, she was moved into a cotbed in her own room. A few days later she was sleeping through the night.
We started weaning a a weekish before she turned 4months. She was fascinated from birth watching people eat, and she was ready to try.
We used a second-hand travel system (including car seat)..
We used a second-hand cotbed, and did not buy a new mattress.
On her first birthday she had some of her cake. This was not the first time she had eaten cake.
She does not watch TV. Ever (it is in a TV cabinet with the doors closed).
She is not taken to baby groups for socialising. My DW finds these groups cliquey and unbearable, and we do not think that there is any reason to suppose DD would get anything out of going.
In the last 13 months my DW and I have never been on a night away from DD (at least one of us has always slept in the same house as DD).
We have not put safety features on everything in the house. We have a log burner and no fire guard relying instead on telling DD not to touch (she doesn't). There are not those funny little catch things on kitchen cupboards.
We tell DD no. (but always explain why)
We let her explore and engage with the world by putting things in her mouth, even if that does include biscuits found on the floor that may have been there a while.
She has slept in the same bed as us. We have fallen asleep with DD sleeping on top of us, sometimes on the sofa!!!
There are probably many more.