9 yr old awful behaviour

[pinklady1107]

My 9 yr old is testing part of me right now

Called into school last week as she's been pulling other girls hair, pushing the over, screaming in faces!!
Was grounded, all screen time banned and missed brownies last night.
Dad and I divorced but he's very much in side and we have disciplined together.

Today I get called into school to say she's been begging others for food. She told school staff I only sent her in with an apple she said this infront of me - lied

I'm at my wits end. She's always demanded more attention than her sister, sulks if its not all about her. I'm so tired.

She is however a loving sister. We spend lots of quality time together, but I'm now desperate for help

You sound like you're doing everything you can, especially with regard to co-parenting with your ex. Easter holidays nearly here, can you spend some extra one on one time with her? It's not rewarding bad behaviour but reinforcing she is loved and cherished and can trust you if there's stuff on her mind she can't work through on her own.