Please help - all suggestions welcome!
Since the birth of ds2 my 3.5 yr old has started to get worse about using the toilet. Now he's pooing and wetting his pants every day. I'm at the end of my tether and things seem to just be getting worse. We've tried a pasta jar, shouting (me), reasoning (dh), and ignoring it (hard because it REALLY gets to me). Ds says he doesn't like the toilets at nursery because the other children mess around but he's generally clean there - he poos later when we're out somewhere. Obviously I need to talk to the nursery but what else can I do?